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Full tutorial on getting your ex back
How to get back together with your ex when YOU dumped THEM⌠and now you regret it, and you want to win them back.
First of all⌠is this even possible? YES, it usually is. In this video, Brad explains why this is usually possible and how to change your exâs mind and make them agree to take you back again.
Video Transcript:
Hello ladies and gentlemen, Iâm Brad Browning
AKA Breakup BradâŚ. And this video is by popular request. Itâs all about how to get back together
with your ex when YOU dumped THEMâŚ. And now you regret it, and you want to win
them back. Is this possible? Yes, in my experience it usually is possible,
at least if you handle things properly and Follow the guidance Iâll be sharing in this
video. Before we get started, a reminder about my
free quizâŚ. If you want to know where you stand with your
ex right now, and what your chances of ever Getting them back are⌠take the free 5-minute
quiz at BreakupBrad.com/Quiz as soon as this Video is over. Now⌠I do need to begin with a word of warningâŚ. There are a lot of factors that will determine
how difficult winning back your ex is going To be. For some of you out there watching this video,
it may be a matter of simply meeting up and Asking him or her to get back together. Thatâs obviously pretty unlikely, but in
some cases â such as if itâs only been A few days since your breakup, or your ex
clearly didnât agree with your decision To break up â it could be that simple. Time is the biggest factor here. The longer itâs been since your initial
breakup, the more difficult itâs going to Be to re-build your exâs attraction to you
to the point where he or she will want to Get back togetherâŚ. Thatâs not to say itâs impossible to win
back your lover after a year or more apart, But itâs definitely going to be a lot more
challenging. Partly, the reason itâs tough to get back
together after a long time apart is because Your ex will probably find someone new in
that time⌠and I think it goes without saying That youâre going to have a tougher time
if your ex is in a serious relationship with Someone new. So if youâre in that kind of situation,
where itâs been many months or even years Since the initial breakup⌠and you already
know your ex is seeing someone else, and has Been for some timeâŚ. Then please think about moving on.
Iâm not saying you canât get him or her
back, because Iâve seen it happen with my Clients many times in the past, but you definitely
need to be ready for the possibility that You wonât be able to get him or her back
and youâll need to move on. Another thing that will affect your strategy
and your odds of success is your exâs attitude And overall feelings towards you⌠did you
dump them in a brutal fashion, or was it a Tough decision you made together after shedding
a lot of tears? If you were a complete dick and kicked your
ex to the curb, that may not actually hurt Your chances of getting them back, believe
it or notâŚ. But generally speaking, the âcleanerâ
your breakup, the easier itâs going to be To get back together. I know some of you are wondering, âwhat
if my ex initially didnât want to break Up, it was all my decision⌠But since then, theyâve changed their mind
and now they donât want me back?ââŚ. Good question, thatâs a common scenario
too, and youâre going to need to use some Of my sneaky psychological tactics to re-build
attraction and change his or mind. (Iâm going to cover a few of these tactics
shortly, but for my full video guide â where I describe a number of very powerful psychological
techniques you can use on your ex â visit My website, BreakupBrad.com.) Now, regardless of which of the scenarios
Iâve just described applies to you, your Starting point is the sameâŚ.. If you havenât already done so, cut off
the lines of communication with your ex starting Today. Depending on how long itâs been since your
initial breakup, you may need to employ the Full 30 days of No Contact, which is what
I advise 99% of the timeâŚ. However, if you havenât spoken with your
ex at all for 2 or more weeks already, then You can skip this part. Otherwise, you NEED to shut down all contact
with your ex for a while⌠especially if The breakup happened fairly recently, in the
last 6-8 weeks or so. The No Contact period is designed to give
your ex time to let go of negative memories, And begin to foster some positive nostalgic
ones. This happens naturally when youâre not talking
to one another, and studies have shown that 30 days or so is the point at which those
nostalgic feelings peak after a breakup⌠So basically, if you ignore your ex for a
month after breaking up, thatâs when he Or she is going to be missing you the most
and thinking about all the amazing times you
Shared together. The other reason for employing my No Contact
strategy is because it sort of acts as âshock Therapyâ⌠instead of allowing your ex
to gently let you go over a period of weeks Or months, youâre cutting yourself out of
their life cold turkey. Trust me, if youâve been in a serious relationship
for a few months or longer, then suddenly Having your partner disappear from your life
is a huge shock and itâs going to create Some SERIOUS heartache. So, you need to make sure that your ex knows
how painful it is when youâre not around Anymore, and the No Contact strategy is the
best way to do that. After youâve finished your period of radio
silence â and again, the more recent your Breakup and the more contact youâve had
since the breakup, the longer you need to Avoid talking to your ex â itâs time to
start re-building attraction and planting The seeds of romance in his or her mind. Basically, my techniques are designed to eliminate
your exâs negative thoughts and feelings Towards you and your relationship, and replace
them with positive ones. Instead of your ex thinking âugh, that loser
ex who mightâve cheated on meâ every time They hear your name, you want them to think,
âugh, how did I let that amazing person Walk out of my life, that was such a mistakeââŚ. Youâve already started to do this by employing
the No Contact phase, because that will help Your ex let go of the baggage and negative
memories⌠but now you need to build real, Organic attraction. You want to make your ex see getting back
together as their best option⌠so that theyâll Ignore any other guys or girls in their life,
and be overwhelmed by their attraction to You, forcing them to ask you for a second
chance. This part is where many people make some serious
mistakes. Building that kind of attraction â making
your ex see YOU as their soulmate, and the Person they should spend their life with â doesnât
happen with words. You canât just send your ex some flowers
and hope that theyâll suddenly fall back In love with you. The only time that strategy might work is
if your ex already wants to get back together AnywayâŚ. Otherwise, for 99% of you watching this video,
sending love notes or spilling your heart Out or sending flowers and gifts to your exâŚ. All that stuff is going to do exactly the
opposite.
Itâs going to make you look like a desperate,
clingy loser. Since YOU are the one who broke up with your
ex initially â or at the very least, your Breakup was a mutual decision â youâve
actually got an advantage at this point in The process. Generally speaking, when youâre the âdumperâ
rather than the one whoâs been dumped, youâre Going to find it easier to start talking to
your ex again⌠and in particular itâs Usually easier to set up in-person meetings
with your ex. Why? Because â if youâve played your cards correctly
up to this point â your ex wonât realize Youâve changed your mind and decided you
want to get back together. That means that your ex is less likely to
see your true intentions and wonât feel Threatened by the idea of hanging out with
you. Now, in case I didnât make it clear, you
do NOT want your ex to know that youâve Changed your mind and decided you want to
get back together. Donât throw away the huge advantage you
have being the one who initiated the breakup By telling your ex that you want them backâŚ
donât show any sadness or regret over the Breakup, donât ask for a second chanceâŚ
just act like youâre confident in your decision To break up. You want your ex to think youâre enjoying
the single life, having fun, and arenât Affected emotionally at all. If youâve already blown it and told your
ex you want them back⌠or, worse yet, begged And pleaded for a second chanceâŚ. Well, thatâs not ideal, but donât sweat
it. The No Contact phase is even more important
in this type of situation, so youâll want To disappear from his or her radar for at
least a few weeks, and then re-start communication Again, this time giving the impression that
youâre moving on and no longer desperate Or heartbroken⌠Those types of behaviours are attraction-killers,
not attraction-builders. Donât start re-establishing the connection
with your ex by suddenly sending them 50 messages A day and calling every nightâŚ.. Slow and steady wins the race here. First, use a simple and fun text message to
break the ice. Iâve included a ton of examples of attraction-building
messages that are ideal to use at this point In my Ex Factor program, so please sign up
at my website â www.BreakupBrad.com â if
You are stuck and need some ideas on what
to say to your ex to make them fall for you Again. To summarize your strategy when it comes to
slowly re-building a connection with your Ex, which is a bridge to get you to the point
where you can meet up in person, Itâs all About keeping your ex smiling and having fun. Send a meme or an inside joke via text, then
ignore your ex for a couple of days. Then bring up a funny memory you shared together,
and let the conversation go back-and-forth A couple of times before you shut it down. Always go slow, be upbeat and positive whenever
youâre talking to your ex, and give off The impression that youâre LOVING life and
THRIVING since the breakup. Once youâve done this for a couple of weeks,
youâll likely be on good terms again, and Your ex is going to be receptive when you
suggest meeting up for a quick coffee date. I recommend you frame this first meeting as
just âgrabbing a drink after work for 20 Mins to catch upâ or âmeeting for coffee
to see how things are going with the new jobââŚ. Basically make it sound as benign and innocent
as possible. Chances are, if youâve followed my advice
properly up until this point, your ex will Agree⌠and now youâre almost at the finish
line. The final step is to get your ex to fall for
you again⌠that sounds like an impossible Task, perhaps, but itâs really just a matter
of flirting like crazy and bringing back the Person you were when your ex first fell in
love with you. You clearly, back then, had no problem charming
your ex and building sexual and emotional Attraction. Remember: getting into dramatic serious talks,
arguments, or any negativity is only going To push your ex away and make you less attractive. So be positive and upbeat, make your ex laugh,
share some fun times together again⌠and Flirt, flirt, flirt. You donât want to come on too strong if
your ex isnât ready for it yet, but gauge How he or she is responding to your initial
flirting and adjust your game accordingly. Donât overthink it. Just have fun together, slowly start hanging
out more and more, and sooner or later your Ex is going to ask you the question youâve
been wanting to hear: âI miss youâŚ. Can we give our relationship another chance? Will you take me back?â OK guys, thatâs it for this videoâŚ
Now you have a clear plan to get back together
with your ex when YOU dumped them, only to Later regret that decision. I sincerely hope you follow my advice as closely
as possible, and you do end up back with your Ex someday very soon. If you need my personal help with your particularly
unique or unusual situation, please visit BreakupBrad.com/Coaching to sign up and work
with me 1-on-1 starting today⌠and of course Donât forget to take my free quiz at BreakupBrad.com/Quiz
to find out your chances of success. Thanks for liking, subscribing, and leaving
your questions in the comments below⌠see You again soon! Bye for now.
