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Full tutorial on getting your ex back
Sometimes, a breakup can be exactly what you need in order to fix your relationship for the long term.
In this video, Brad explains how breaking up can save your relationship and eventually become a good thing for the future with your ex.
Learn how to turn your breakup into something positive!
Video Transcript:
Are breakups always the end well what if I told you that a breakup could actually Be the beginning well if you follow my Advice it can help you build a better Relationship with your ex than you ever Thought possible hey guys you know me I’m brad browning youtube’s resident Breakup expert and author of the best Selling ex factor guide now i specialize In helping you get your ex back and stay With them for good and i really do think That people are often too quick to throw Away a good thing and if you do agree With that hit the like button and Subscribe to my channel for more videos On how to reconnect with your ex and Build a healthier relationship So let’s dive into it now between the Hurt feelings the fighting and the Fracturing of your relationship How can a breakup actually be a good Thing how can you even hope to get a Second chance after all that you two Have been through well first off you Wouldn’t be the first person to make This happen breakups you know actually They aren’t the end for many Relationships according to a 2013 study By kansas state university one in three Couples who live together have broken up And got back together and that goes for Even the worst breakups including the 38 Of people who break up due to infidelity And cheating and even better over half
Of the people age 17 to 24 have returned To an ex after breaking up so the idea That it’s shameful or short-sighted to Get back with an ex is something that i Really do want to push back against the Truth is it happens all the time even if People don’t always admit it Relationships really are complicated and You know sometimes you feel like you’ve Hit your limit but after a little time In space chances are that you and your Ex will realize that you are actually Better off together so you know why Exactly do couples reconcile after Breaking up and how as the topic of this Video suggests can breaking up help you Stay together in the long run well Number one being a part makes you Stronger now independence is key to a Happy relationship you know often Couples get into trouble and then they Break up because they rely too much on One another for happiness the idea that You need your partner to be happy is not Healthy because of the implication that They’re responsible for your happiness So if you’re not happy all the time They’re doing something wrong and that’s A big burden for you and your partner to Take on now that you’re apart you don’t Have anyone to rely on other than Yourself you’ll be forced to figure out How to be happy on your own develop your Life as one person and find your own
Interests and your own ways of coping With your struggles and when you come Back together you’ll have the Reassurance that you don’t need them to Survive you’ll know that you’re together Because you’re choosing to spend your Time with them because you love and Value them as a human being now this may Be less romantic than a song by adele But it is more sustainable and more Healthy in the long run she did get Divorced after all and number two Breaking up can be the reality check That you need now this pattern is pretty Typical in a lot of relationships you Know you’re in love and things are Mostly great when when problems crop up And you just sweep them under the rug And this works for a while but as more And more issues crop up the relationship Slowly gets worse and worse without you Really ever addressing it and eventually The good column is far outweighed by the Bad column then there’s a fight and the Relationship reaches a crisis point and By now you know there’s so much negative That the idea of overcoming this one Final issue doesn’t seem worth it and so The relationship ends but a breakup or Even just the threat of a breakup can Give you the motivation that you need to Make real change in the relationship you Know it puts all the issues out on the Table and you can no longer pretend that
They don’t exist if you do end up Reconciling you know you’ll both be Aware of these problems and be motivated To fix them moving forward Number three you’re going to both see The downsides of being single i think we Can all agree that the single life can Be rough you know you’re expected to Meet new people constantly put yourself Out there and inevitably face rejection And heartbreak from strangers and if you Feel that way then chances are your ex Does too sometimes just taking this time Apart can make you both realize that you Were taking one another for granted You’ll be a much happier staying Together than trying to build something New from scratch yet again Number four it takes distance to get a Realistic view of your relationship Really it’s not always easy to see what Isn’t working in your relationship Because you’re too close to it but with Some space you can often see it as clear As day so think about your past Relationships you know i bet you can Look back now and see exactly why they Didn’t work out you know you didn’t have Enough in common they didn’t treat you Right you wanted different things but I’m guessing at the time everything Seemed great right well this can be the Same with your current relationship After a few weeks or months apart you
Can objectively look at the relationship You can see what worked what didn’t and Decide what needs to be addressed in Order to make the partnership work in The future and this distance is often Enough to give you the perspective that You need to actually turn the Relationship around now i do want to Caution you that it is usually best to Hold off on addressing these issues Until the two of you have properly Reconnected and rebuilt trust and we’ll Talk about that more a little bit later In the video Number five is it changes the narrative Now relationships can get into ruts Really easily so it can actually be Worse the closer and the more connected You are you know your lives get super in Sync you do everything together and Things are great but soon you realize That you don’t you always seem to do the Same things you’ve drifted apart from Your friends and you’re so entrenched in This routine that it’s hard to even Think of your life before the Relationship but a breakup will shake up Your day-to-day life in a way that’s Going to be uncomfortable but often Ultimately beneficial you know maybe you Can’t hang out with your usual friends Because they took your ex aside in the Breakup well now you can catch up with Other friends that you haven’t seen in a
Long time or maybe thursday night was Date night well now you can use that Regular time you set aside to take a Yoga class see your family or just enjoy Some of your newfound freedom now these Are all going to lead to two big changes In your life and change is good when You’re in a bad place so if your Relationship suffered because you were Both bored then a breakup can be just What you need to actually realize it now If you’ve gone through a breakup and You’re wondering if your relationship is Still worth saving then you really do Need to take my free quiz go to Breakupbrad.com Quiz to see if there still is any hope For your relationship now this free tool Has helped thousands of people figure Out what their next step is after Breaking up and it’s totally free and Only takes about five minutes again you Can take the quiz for free at Breakupbrad.com quiz now let’s move on To number six it can help you figure out What you want now relationships they Can’t work if you don’t know your own Needs and this lack of clarity causes Tension because you know neither person Really knows what’s expected maybe you Couldn’t rely on them and that caused Resentment maybe they were too clingy Maybe you didn’t show affection the way That they needed it well these are all
Things that you need to sort out during Your time apart so here’s a few Questions to think about just during That time when you’re apart number one What do i not miss Number two did i take enough time for Myself number three what’s something That i expected from them that was Unreasonable number four Was i fully invested in the relationship Number five what do i miss about them Number six how did they change my life Number seven did i allow them to have Freedom in the relationship and number Eight did i fulfill their needs and Answering these questions can help you Figure out what you’ll do differently When you get back together All right now let’s talk about how to Get the most out of your breakup and Maximize the chances of winning them Back now this of course is going to Involve the no contact method and it’s Helped thousands of my clients win back Their exes in a very short period of Time now no contact is not easy but it Is simple and if you can follow it then Your ex is going to begin to miss you Like crazy after only a few weeks so First obvious step is to cut contact With your ex You know you and your ex have broken up So act like it you know set firm Boundaries and stick to them don’t keep
Hanging around together don’t keep Calling them on the phone or even Texting them you know it may seem like a Big step to cut off contact but it’s Going to help in the long run and if They’ve ended things but they won’t Leave you alone then cutting off contact Will make them realize that this is for Real and that they’ll have to treat you Better if they want a second chance and Up to this point if you’ve been begging And pleading or even just reaching out To your ex you’ve been hurting your Chances without even knowing it no Matter how warmly they respond to you Next you need to try new things you see The no the no contact period is going to Leave you with a lot of time to yourself And you need to use that time Productively so you know what are some Things you didn’t or couldn’t do when You were together maybe you always Wanted to go hunting but you knew that Your ex wouldn’t approve well now is a Perfect time to do it maybe you were too Busy to get to the gym as often as you’d Like when you were still together well Again this could be your chance to Finally train for that triathlon that You’ve always wanted to do or maybe you Wanted to travel the world but you Couldn’t take the time off work or your Ex couldn’t to go with you now is a Perfect opportunity to get out there and
Do that traveling the reality is you’ve Probably been stuck in a rut for a while Now so make a list of the things that You want to do and get out there and do Them next improve yourself so if your ex Wanted to end things before are they Going to want you back now that you Spend all day on the couch elbow deep in A bag of chips really this time is a Gift so take stock of your life ask Yourself you know how could it be better And then take action and this could mean You know getting healthy going to Therapy spending more time with your Fair with your family or taking on more Responsibility at work if you set goals And throw yourself into them pretty soon You won’t be thinking about your breakup And this will also give you a huge boost Of confidence to see tangible positive Changes in your life and honestly you Know seeing you go for your dreams is Going to impress your ex and make them Wonder why they ever wanted to break up In the first place Next up date new people now i realize That dating may be the last thing you Want to do right now but it is going to Help dating somebody new is going to Give you a chance to to practice dating Again to get some confidence back and to Relight that romantic spark that may Have been missing towards the end of Your relationship also it doesn’t hurt
That it will probably make your ex very Jealous now if you are struggling to get Yourself to the kind of place where you Can actually put your ex out of your Mind and go on a date consider getting Some outside help i offer my services as A breakup coach at Breakupbrad.comcoaching And when you sign up there i’ll listen To your side of the story and together We can put together a plan to make the Most of your no contact period and Ensure that you win back your ex when It’s over again if you want to sign up Or see my current availability just go To breakupbrad.com Coaching now the truth is you know Whether you got dumped broke up with Them or even if you’re just taking a Break from the relationship you really Can’t waste your time pining for them I’m sure i understand that you totally Miss them and i’m sure that you feel Horrible and you’re doing everything in Your power to fix this but this time Apart is happening whether you like it Or not so you do need to get something Out of it if you can’t do it for Yourself then do it for your Relationship the more you make the most Of this time apart the more the better a Partner you’ll be when you’re actually Back together all right guys that does It for today’s video thanks a lot for
Watching all the way to the end um Breakups are really hard but now you Know how to make the most of it and if You’ve got any more questions about how To bounce back from your breakup please Comment below and i will do my best to Help you out also if you haven’t already Please subscribe to my channel and look Out for my next video coming soon thanks For watching You
