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Full tutorial on getting your ex back
To get your ex back, you need them to be attracted to you… you need your ex to WANT you, both physically and emotionally.
Attraction is the glue that holds together relationships, and it’s what will make your ex take you back.
So, in this video, Brad Browning explains how to re-build your ex’s attraction for you and make them want you to the point they decide to ask you to get back together.
If you want to learn the secrets of building attraction inside your ex’s brain, this is the video for you.
Video Transcript:
I know your ex probably gave you a specific
reason for the breakup but I’m here to tell  You that attraction was definitely a factor in
their decision as well whether or not they’ll  Actually admit that to you so I’m here to give
you what you need to rebuild their attraction  And make them desperate to have you back in their
arms hello YouTube I of course am Brad Browning  Author of The X Factor guide and breakup coach to
over 10 000 clients around the world now if you’re  Looking for a second chance with your ex you’re
definitely in the right place so please drop me  A like And subscribe to my channel for more videos
like this one now why does attraction play such a  Huge part in almost all breakups well the truth
is that people will try a lot harder to make a  Relationship work with someone that they’re
attracted to and if they’re not attracted to  You then they’ll be looking for a reason to break
up and that means that if they ended things with  You then there’s an extremely good chance that
they’re no longer attracted to you at least not  As much as they were in the beginning attraction
is really it’s really the glue that holds things  Together in a relationship it Smooths out the
rough patches and it gives you a reason to stay  Together at the end of the day and to be clear
I’m not just talking about physical attraction  Here although that is extremely important I’m
also talking about emotional and intellectual  Attraction and this is why attraction is so
complex and easy to lose if you don’t Factor  It into your relationships luckily these are all
tied in together so if you fix one it’ll go a long  Way towards fixing the others as well remember
if this person was attracted to you before they  Can be again but before we talk about how to build
attraction we need to talk about why people lose  Attraction and there is of course an obvious
reason maybe you’ve lost what it is that makes  You attractive maybe it’s just aging or a lack
of upkeep that caused your appearance to decline  Over time but honestly this isn’t that common most
people understand that their Partners will change  Over time and they’ll still be happy with who
you’ve become even if you have a few more crow’s  Feet or an extra love handle or two more likely
it’s an emotional attraction issue they’ve lost  Attraction due to a lack of effort you know the
longer you’re in a relationship the closer you get  To a person the more you get desensitized to their
presence you know you effectively stop seeing them  And this is a natural part of any relationship
and something that you actively have to fight  Against if you want to actually stay happy and
fulfilled in that relationship now there are  Plenty of ways to do this but the thing to keep
in mind is that you need your partner to see you  And not let you Fade Into the background of their
life so this means spending focused time together  It means trying new things together so that you
can show you know different sides of yourselves  It also means being attentive and loving to them
in and out of the bedroom now obviously in your  Situation it’s probably too late for you to do
both of the most of those things since you’re  Probably already broken up but there are still
ways that you can make your ex see you differently
And build that attraction back up so that you
can create a situation where they want you back  So number one is to take down your red flags
now oftentimes we lose attraction for someone  When their negative attributes start to outweigh
their positive attributes now these are your red  Flags so right after you’ve been dumped is a great
time to assess the negatives that you bring into  The relationship chances are you received
some specific feedback from your ex about  What they did and didn’t like about you in the
relationship at the very least you’re probably  Feeling pretty down on yourself so you’re well
aware of some of your negative characteristics  Now don’t use this as an excuse for self-pity or
self-hatred you know I want you to try to look  At yourself objectively this can be a good time
to you know even enlist the help of a trusted  Friend or family member to really nail down the
specific issues that you can work on and start  To address them so you know maybe you never really
commit properly to the people you date maybe you  Argue for the sake of arguing maybe your hygiene
leaves something to be desired really there are  A million little ways that you may have lost
your partner’s attraction and if you want them  Or really anyone to stick around you need to face
these problems and eliminate them now if you’re  Looking for a sympathetic gear and someone to help
you plan your next move consider signing up for my  Coaching program at breakupbrad.com coaching I
know it can be really difficult to ask for help  But if you can get over that hurdle I know I can
help you win back your ex I’ve helped thousands of  People win their exes back so just know that I’ve
seen it all and I know that there’s almost always  Hope again go to breakupbrad.com coaching for more
info and to sign up today now the second thing you  Need to do is change things up see remember that
you you need to make your ex see you really see  You if you want them to feel attraction towards
you and the best way to do that is to make a  Change I mean I know that getting a post-breakup
haircut or hitting the gym or going back to school  These are all cliches but they honestly can all be
really effective if you want to win your ex back  Because they show that you’re capable of change
so find something that you’re not happy with about  Yourself or about your life and change it you
know this can be as small as you know getting  A piercing or as large as losing a hundred pounds
whatever you choose to do make sure it’s something  That will be big and obvious and make you feel
more confident and the next time your ex sees you  Again they’re going to be surprised and wonder
what else has changed about you subconsciously  This is going to make them curious and that’s
going to quickly lead to more attraction number  Three is to take time apart now if you’ve seen
any of my past videos you’ve probably heard me  Preach the no contact method this of course is
the process of spending 30 days cut off from  Your ex as soon as possible after the breakup
not only does this allow you both the time to to  Process the breakup but it also actively rebuilds
attraction now this seems counterintuitive but  It’s actually pretty simple the closer you are to
somebody the harder it can be to feel attraction
To them remember that feeling you know you’re just
you’re just blending into the wallpaper this is  Because attraction requires distance you need
that separation to feel that attraction because  If you’ve already come together you’re already
attached to one another so think of it this  Way the Moon and the Earth are attracted to one
another by gravity now if the moon crashed into  The Earth what would happen to that attraction it
would be gone because the two have become one and  The fact is that you need space to create and
maintain attraction you can’t ever become you  Know fully become one in a relationship and trying
too hard to make this happen is just a recipe for  Lost attraction and that’s why you need to build
space into your relationship if you want it to  Last and it’s also why the no contact method
is such a powerful facilitator of attraction  Between two people who’ve broken up now if you
want more information about no contact check  The links in the description of this video or just
check out my channel for more videos on no contact  Number four is to improve yourself now this is
actually another pillar of the no contact method  You need to improve yourself if you want your
ex back not only is tangible Improvement going  To lead to Greater attraction but the confidence
boost that you get from achieving your goals are  Going to be the real attraction booster and
this means that even if your ex has no idea  How you’ve improved your life they’ll be able to
feel it the next time that you see them in person  Being dumped has honestly probably damaged your
confidence and your self-image and the only way to  Rebuild that is through hard work and discipline
obviously you’re going to have more time on your  Hands now that you can either squander in sadness
and unhealthy coping coping mechanisms or you can  Use that time to change your life for the better
so set a goal for yourself you know ideally you  Want this to be something that’s achievable in
a short period of time maybe 30 days if you want  It to line up with the end of your period of
no contact but it can also be something more  Long-term the important thing is to get started
in a positive direction people who are driven know  What they want and they know how to get it and
that can be extremely attractive to just about  Anyone including your ex and number 5 is to date
other people now I know if you recently broke up  And you want your ex back you probably have no
intention of dating anyone else right now but IÂ Â Would like you to seriously consider it it can
actually be a very effective way of rebuilding  Your ex’s attraction for you this of course is
because it makes them worry about losing you  Yes jealousy can Inspire attraction almost like
nothing else and on top of that there’s also the  Sense of perspective that it brings you know
I think if you’re watching this video it means  You’re pretty focused on winning back your ex
right now and while of course I think that’s  Great and I wish you all the best this mindset can
easily lead to Obsession and Desperation which is  Not attractive to anyone so you can easily get
so focused on your goal that you lose all sense  Of perspective and start to reach out to your
ex too much laugh a little too hard at their
Jokes push a little bit too hard to spend time
together and pretty soon you’ve scared them off  So think about putting yourself out there you
know ask your friends to set you up or download  A dating app to meet up with someone as soon as
you can and try to just enjoy yourself and have  Fun with these people even if you don’t intend
on spending the rest of your life with them  And when all of this is is over and you’ve won
your rack your ex you’re going to be glad that  You had a few new experiences in the meantime all
right guys that just about does it for this video  Um if you’ve ever won somebody back who’s lost
attraction for you in the past I’d love to hear  Your story in the comments below and don’t forget
to ask your questions as well thanks so much for  Watching please subscribe please like this video
and I’ll see you in the next one bye for now
