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Full tutorial on getting your ex back
If your ex seems to be flip-flopping all over the place, giving you mixed signals, and unwilling to commit to the breakup (or to getting back together)… this video is for you.
In this video Brad Browning explains why your ex can’t make up their mind and how to force them to commit to taking you back for good.
Video Transcript:
Hello hello breakup brad here and Today’s video is going to be for anyone Who feels like their ex can’t make up Their mind maybe you’re you’re getting The hot and cold treatment from your ex Where you know one minute they seem to Want you back and the next minute they Ignore you or maybe it’s even less Subtle than that and you know they flat Out told you that they’re not sure Whether breaking up was the right Decision but they’re also not willing to Get back together either whatever it is If your ex seems to be flip-flopping all Over the place you know giving you mixed Signals and unwilling to commit to the Breakup or to getting back together this Video is for You now this is your first time on my Channel i am brad browning and i’ve been Youtube’s leading breakup coach since 2012 through my videos here and through My best-selling ex factor program i’ve Helped hundreds of thousands of people Get their ex back or get over at their Breakup so if you want my personal help With your situation You can visit Breakupbrad.comcoaching to sign up and Work with me one-on-one starting today Now that’s the self-promotion out of the Way let’s talk about why your ex is Undecided about the breakup what it Means and what you should do about it in
Order to win them back All right i want to start with a simple Reality check now in situations where Your ex can’t seem to make up their mind About the breakup it’s almost always the Truth you know they’re not normally Giving you the mixed messages or the the Flip flop treatment because they’ve got Some underlying motive or they’re trying To hide the truth to avoid hurting you Most of the time you’re not always but In the vast majority of situations they Genuinely don’t know what they want They’re not faking it they’re Legitimately unable to decide or commit To a decision one way or another now if You want a second chance with this ex And i assume that is probably the case For for most of you watching well this Is actually great news you know it means They’re they’re not fully committed to The breakup yet it means that they’re Still trying to weigh the the pros and Cons get a taste of what life is like Without you around or maybe even you Know just enjoy some some time and space To think whatever the reasons you can be Optimistic about your odds of getting Them back if they’re not willing to to Commit to a permanent breakup now if you Haven’t already go to breakupbrad.com Quiz after this video is over and go Ahead and take my free 5-minute quiz to Get a better idea of your current
Chances and what you need to do next to Maximize those odds like i said you’re Probably in a pretty good situation Right now if your ex is giving you mixed Signals and can’t make up their mind but Taking the quiz is still a good idea so Head over to breakupbrad.com quiz after The video if you haven’t already taken It before we move on and talk about how You can make your ex decide to take you Back let me briefly explain why your ex Might be unable to make up their mind And commit to to either breaking up or To getting back together Firstly you know your ex is almost Certainly scared they’re terrified in Fact of the of facing the reality of Life without you by their side you know They became accustomed to your Relationship they enjoyed the security And the companionship and the intimacy That came with that long-term Relationship and they know that breaking Up and losing all those things is going To be very painful and it’s no secret You know that breakups are usually Gut-wrenching for both people involved And your ex knows that and even though They likely won’t admit it a lot of Their indecision right now is probably Driven by a fear of the breakup Heartache but not only are they afraid Of the heartache and the pain that Follows a breakup they’re also afraid of
Losing you they’re afraid that if they Commit to breaking up you know if they Tell you outright in no uncertain terms That it’s over for good then you’ll move On and they’ll lose you for good and you Won’t be around as you know their plan b Backup option anymore and that’s maybe Even more frightening than the Post-breakup emotions and that’s why They’re they’re keeping you around Stringing you along and telling you that They don’t know what they want they’re Basically holding on to you as a backup Option ensuring that they don’t lose you For good before they’re ready to commit To a permanent breakup now in some cases Your ex might even be stringing you Along like this while they look for Someone new someone they hope that’s Going to be you know even more Compatible with them now sometimes They’ll do this because there were real Legitimate problems plugging your Relationship that they feel you know may Not be an issue in future relationships With somebody new but sometimes it’s Also more of a result of you know false Assumptions and the glorified hollywood You know perfect soul mate fantasy they Might dream of having the kind of Relationship that they’ve seen in movies Where couples never never fight and fall Madly in love you know overnight Obviously we all know this isn’t the way
Things work in real life no relationship Is perfect and no one finds their Soulmate and lives happily ever after Without you know any bumps along the way But a lot of people do fall victim to The to the grasses greener syndrome and They want to try and find greener Pastures and chase that fantasy no Matter how healthy and loving that your Relationship actually was whatever the Case was for your ex you know whatever Subconscious justifications they’ve got Spinning around in their head that are Making them string you along and avoid Committing to a breakup or getting back Together it’s likely based on genuine Indecision on their part and it’s also Likely driven by an underlying fear of Losing you and this leads us to the next Question which is So like we already talked about your ex Fears losing you they fear that by Telling you in no uncertain terms that This breakup is real and permanent that They’ll no longer be able to change Their mind if things don’t work out this Is a great thing for your chances of Getting them back and really you need to Magnify that fear in the back of your Ex’s mind and make sure they understand You know what they’re losing if they Don’t soon decide to commit to taking You back remember this is what they fear And this is usually at the root of their
Indecisiveness so the more they feel That fear that potential loss knowing You’ll you’ll no longer be around as Their backup plan the more urgency you Create to the situation and the more you Know they’re going to be tempted to ask You to take them back so how do you Actually ensure that your ex feels this Kind of urgency and this sense of loss To the point where it makes them decide To finally you know commit to getting Back together well the simplest way is To just employ a period of no contact And stop letting them have it both ways So don’t be there for them anymore don’t Let them adjust to to life after the Breakup slowly go cold turkey on them And make them feel the full Repercussions of breaking up and all the Heartache that’s gonna come from you Suddenly disappearing now i realize you Know this might sound cold and devious But i honestly personally don’t think It’s unfair to your ex at all you They’re stringing you along in a way Trying to have their cake and eat it too And you’re really just simply standing Up for your own right to move on and Find somebody who’s actually willing to Commit to a relationship instead of you Know leaving you hanging around as a Backup plan so even if your ex really Has zero desire to hurt you and their Indecision about breaking up is
Completely subconscious they’re still Asking you for time apart by breaking up You know despite not fully committing to That decision long term so in my opinion You shouldn’t feel guilty at all about Going no contact on an ex who can’t make Up their mind or doesn’t know what they Want Now is there a possibility a very slim Possibility even that this could end up With your ex deciding to make things Permanent you know maybe you’re worried You know that giving giving them time And space during no contact will help Them get over you and decide to make the Breakup permanent And that could you know in some rare Cases actually be a real risk but Honestly it’s less of a risk than Continuing to allow yourself to be Strung along as your ex’s plan b option And continuing to be clinging and needy By sticking around hoping they’ll change Their mind and commit to getting you Back together so to sum it all up if you Want your ex back and they can’t seem to Make up their mind or decide what they Really want your best bet for making Them take you back is to show them that You’re not waiting around that you’re Confident enough to accept breaking up And move on to somebody new that you Know you’re a great catch and that You’re not willing to beg and plead with
Somebody who won’t commit to being with You so employ a period of no contact get Out there and be as busy and as social As possible act like you’re quickly Getting over your ex and you’ve fully Accepted the breakup even if they Continue to occasionally throw you Breadcrumbs that suggest that they may Want you back and if you do this Correctly and you have the commitment to Fully embrace the idea of moving on and Acting like you believe this this Breakup is permanent then there’s a very Good chance your ex is going to cave to That urgency and to that fear of losing You and come crawling back begging you For another chance in fact this is a key Component of the psychological Techniques that i share in my full Tutorial video at breakupbrad.com so for Those of you watching who know that you Belong with your ex and you can’t Stomach the idea of losing them well do What i just talked about in this video But also go to breakupbrad.com and watch My free tutorial video and apply all the Strategies that i share in that video as Well by doing so you’re going to be Maximizing your chances and hopefully Soon end up back with your ex in a new And more committed relationship all Right i hope you guys found this video Useful um leave your questions in the Comments below so i can get back to you
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